Hey guys,
It is sad that this group is coming to an end and we definitely have to at least attempt to get together before May 11th! So looking back over all our blogs I think we have all definitely grown. Closure is always a hard thing for me but I also feel really ready to be done with school (maybe because I took so many credits this semester) and I feel ready to move on to the next phase. Josh and I actually just looked at a condo in Vienna we really like today that would allow us to have Gracie!!! So we will probably try to move in next month! Thank you guys for being with me in this :) I'm going to miss you all!
An attitude I would like to continue going forward and encourage y'all to continue going forward is this notion of being kind to ourselves. It is something that I think we have grown in this semester but I could see it getting easy to forget moving out of college into the "real world." Maybe we could even post on this blog from time to time after the semester ends just to update each other on life and hopefully that will challenge us to try to continue to be kind to ourselves and take care of ourselves rather than lash ourselves along.
Love,
Lindsey
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
8 days!!
Hello all!
So I know I already sort of did my "closure" post, but I just wanted to post back after all of you guys's posts. First of all, as you can see from my title David, I am counting down. 8 days until my last class and 16 until graduation day! I'm so excited! My little sister is coming to stay with my on the 12th-ish and then she's going to stay until the rest of my family gets here for my graduation! I'm so freaking excited!!! but, back to reality. I'm posting this as a breather from my final paper for cultivating the spirit. I can't believe it's due tomorrow! May 1st seemed like it was so far away! Anyway, 1261 words down. Only 739 left. ugh. I can't complain too much though. I just finished my field report for education 301 on sunday and it was 22 pages long. I can't believe I got through that whole thing. I also have a big research presentation tomorrow. After that it's just one 4-6 page reflection and a final reflection for my education class that I've already started. I can't believe I'm so close! It feels like forever!
With my grad school program it's very controlled with what classes you take. There really isn't any choice. I take 1-4 classes a semester and they're always at 4:30 or 7:10. I don't get to pick my section or anything. They literally have a reserved section of the classes for my cohort and tell us all to sign up for them. Fortunately, I'm starting pretty easy. Just 3 credits this summer and we meet TR from 4:30-7:10. Hopefully it won't be too bad.
Lindsey--I hope you're doing ok with Josh being gone. I'm keeping you in my thoughts! I hope that you're able to take Gracie home soon! Have you started your new job yet? If so is it going well?! Hopefully keeping busy with work and your practices can help you not miss Josh ALL the time! ;]
David--You're yard looks AWESOME! I know you probably told us already, but do you live with parents? What family are you going to see in Hungary?
Ariel--I hope your pop culture paper turned out alright and your new jobs going well. I would suggest checking hiremason for jobs if you haven't already. My job was approving the jobs that went on there for two years and they get a TON in just about every field. The best part is that a lot of the companies are mainly looking to hire from Mason. It's definitely worth checking out and if you aren't registered it's free and you have a lifetime membership. If you wait until 6 months after graduation or more you have to pay like $10 or $20 to register. So do it even if you don't need it now! I was looking at jobs on there the other day and I'm pretty sure I saw a couple social work positions!
Guys! We seriously need to have a closure meeting. I know we'll close things out at our last meeting, but I really want to see you all and hang out before we all go our separate ways in the "real" world!
Miss you guys!
So I know I already sort of did my "closure" post, but I just wanted to post back after all of you guys's posts. First of all, as you can see from my title David, I am counting down. 8 days until my last class and 16 until graduation day! I'm so excited! My little sister is coming to stay with my on the 12th-ish and then she's going to stay until the rest of my family gets here for my graduation! I'm so freaking excited!!! but, back to reality. I'm posting this as a breather from my final paper for cultivating the spirit. I can't believe it's due tomorrow! May 1st seemed like it was so far away! Anyway, 1261 words down. Only 739 left. ugh. I can't complain too much though. I just finished my field report for education 301 on sunday and it was 22 pages long. I can't believe I got through that whole thing. I also have a big research presentation tomorrow. After that it's just one 4-6 page reflection and a final reflection for my education class that I've already started. I can't believe I'm so close! It feels like forever!
With my grad school program it's very controlled with what classes you take. There really isn't any choice. I take 1-4 classes a semester and they're always at 4:30 or 7:10. I don't get to pick my section or anything. They literally have a reserved section of the classes for my cohort and tell us all to sign up for them. Fortunately, I'm starting pretty easy. Just 3 credits this summer and we meet TR from 4:30-7:10. Hopefully it won't be too bad.
Lindsey--I hope you're doing ok with Josh being gone. I'm keeping you in my thoughts! I hope that you're able to take Gracie home soon! Have you started your new job yet? If so is it going well?! Hopefully keeping busy with work and your practices can help you not miss Josh ALL the time! ;]
David--You're yard looks AWESOME! I know you probably told us already, but do you live with parents? What family are you going to see in Hungary?
Ariel--I hope your pop culture paper turned out alright and your new jobs going well. I would suggest checking hiremason for jobs if you haven't already. My job was approving the jobs that went on there for two years and they get a TON in just about every field. The best part is that a lot of the companies are mainly looking to hire from Mason. It's definitely worth checking out and if you aren't registered it's free and you have a lifetime membership. If you wait until 6 months after graduation or more you have to pay like $10 or $20 to register. So do it even if you don't need it now! I was looking at jobs on there the other day and I'm pretty sure I saw a couple social work positions!
Guys! We seriously need to have a closure meeting. I know we'll close things out at our last meeting, but I really want to see you all and hang out before we all go our separate ways in the "real" world!
Miss you guys!
Monday, April 29, 2013
Almost done!!!
Hey groupies,
I cannot believe we are all so close to being done!! David, your backyard looks awesome! You are a very talented landscaper! Josh's family owns their own landscaping business so I really can appreciate the hard work, it looks great!
My well-being practices are going really well! I got to play a pick-up game of soccer last week with some coaches in the Vienna area and it was so much fun! I was so sore from it! Haha I am definitely not in the shape I used to be :) but I had a great time!
Josh and I officially filled out our application to adopt Gracie so now we just need to move and then we can get her! I am so excited!!!!
Josh left for FL again this morning which is hard but this challenge is forcing me to deal with some issues like I am working with my wellness practitioner/counselor on why I have such a fear of being alone and taking steps to ease my subconscious like leaving lights on and having Josh set his alarm to call and check in with me during the night. I am optimistic that this week will be a little easier than last! And to answer Heather's question we won't be moving to FL because it is a short term project so hopefully Josh will be done with all of this craziness in July.
Pushing through all my papers due this week is going to be challenging but I know I can do it and it is so worth it! We all can do it! I am so excited for all of us :D
Cheers y'all!!
I cannot believe we are all so close to being done!! David, your backyard looks awesome! You are a very talented landscaper! Josh's family owns their own landscaping business so I really can appreciate the hard work, it looks great!
My well-being practices are going really well! I got to play a pick-up game of soccer last week with some coaches in the Vienna area and it was so much fun! I was so sore from it! Haha I am definitely not in the shape I used to be :) but I had a great time!
Josh and I officially filled out our application to adopt Gracie so now we just need to move and then we can get her! I am so excited!!!!
Josh left for FL again this morning which is hard but this challenge is forcing me to deal with some issues like I am working with my wellness practitioner/counselor on why I have such a fear of being alone and taking steps to ease my subconscious like leaving lights on and having Josh set his alarm to call and check in with me during the night. I am optimistic that this week will be a little easier than last! And to answer Heather's question we won't be moving to FL because it is a short term project so hopefully Josh will be done with all of this craziness in July.
Pushing through all my papers due this week is going to be challenging but I know I can do it and it is so worth it! We all can do it! I am so excited for all of us :D
Cheers y'all!!
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Final Final
Helllllloooo Ladies!
How's everyone enjoying the spring? The most difficult time of the year is coming up so good luck to all of you on your final exams/projects/presentations or anything that you have! I'm happy to say this is my last last final period. In 3 weeks, we'll be all graduated and I cannot wait!
Lindsey - I'm glad to hear you got a job like that, and I'm VERY jealous too! I keep looking for jobs but the State Department isn't easy to get into!
Ariel - I have a job for the summer but that ends in July and then I'm planning to go to Hungary to see my family because I haven't seen them in 2 years and I really miss them :(
Heather - CONGRATS!!! I'm so glad to hear you got into grad school, it's not easy! Best of luck to you next semester!
This is a picture of one half of our backyard. I finally got to clean both of our fish ponds, and this is how one of them looks. I like it and not to brag but I think I deserve a pat on the shoulder :)
Hope all is well with you guys, I can't wait to see you again in two weeks!
David
PS: has anyone started counting down the days? :)
How's everyone enjoying the spring? The most difficult time of the year is coming up so good luck to all of you on your final exams/projects/presentations or anything that you have! I'm happy to say this is my last last final period. In 3 weeks, we'll be all graduated and I cannot wait!
Lindsey - I'm glad to hear you got a job like that, and I'm VERY jealous too! I keep looking for jobs but the State Department isn't easy to get into!
Ariel - I have a job for the summer but that ends in July and then I'm planning to go to Hungary to see my family because I haven't seen them in 2 years and I really miss them :(
Heather - CONGRATS!!! I'm so glad to hear you got into grad school, it's not easy! Best of luck to you next semester!
Hope all is well with you guys, I can't wait to see you again in two weeks!
David
PS: has anyone started counting down the days? :)
Sunday, April 21, 2013
Grad School
Hey guys!
I hope everyone is doing well. Congratulations on your new jobs Linsdey and Ariel. Also congratulations on getting Gracie Lindsey! That's got to be so exciting! I'm sorry to hear about Josh having to work in Florida. How long will he have to do that? Have you thought about the possibility of moving there if it's long term? I know it's going to be hard to be separated. Josh and I went through something similar when he was in the Army. I know how hard and lonely it can be. Keep your family and friends close and it won't be so bad! I'll keep you both in my thoughts!
So I have big news! Yesterday, I FINALLY got my letter from GMU about grad school and... I'm in! I got into the program I applied to and I'm going to be starting my first class in June! I'm SO excited!! Now, I just need to focus on ending my last semester and bachelor's degree with some closure. I want to finish strong. I talked a bit about it in our posting for this module, but I tend to get lazy during the end of my semesters, especially since it's my last semester, and I have been particularly feeling bad about my lack of focus and dedication to school. I'm already moving past the end of the semester and I haven't even given it proper closure yet. I am going to work very hard to buckle down and be a focused and hard working student for the next 2.5 weeks of my semester and then I'm going to fully appreciate crossing the stage and feeling like I truly earned my diploma.
I also want to feel like we've had good closure as a group. I'm going to miss reading about you guys's lives and having friends to share my spiritual journey with. Part of getting good closure I think, is to definitely meet and have lunch. Just so we can say our goodbye's as a small group.
Anyway, I'm going to go do some of that buckling down and work on some of my papers. I have 6 pages down on my 30+ page field experience journal on top of a presentation and 4 other smaller papers due in the next two weeks. I've been procrastinating working on all this, but I know I'll go crazy if I don't break it up and work on it a little at a time. So, wish me luck! I can't wait to see you guys!
Heather
I hope everyone is doing well. Congratulations on your new jobs Linsdey and Ariel. Also congratulations on getting Gracie Lindsey! That's got to be so exciting! I'm sorry to hear about Josh having to work in Florida. How long will he have to do that? Have you thought about the possibility of moving there if it's long term? I know it's going to be hard to be separated. Josh and I went through something similar when he was in the Army. I know how hard and lonely it can be. Keep your family and friends close and it won't be so bad! I'll keep you both in my thoughts!
So I have big news! Yesterday, I FINALLY got my letter from GMU about grad school and... I'm in! I got into the program I applied to and I'm going to be starting my first class in June! I'm SO excited!! Now, I just need to focus on ending my last semester and bachelor's degree with some closure. I want to finish strong. I talked a bit about it in our posting for this module, but I tend to get lazy during the end of my semesters, especially since it's my last semester, and I have been particularly feeling bad about my lack of focus and dedication to school. I'm already moving past the end of the semester and I haven't even given it proper closure yet. I am going to work very hard to buckle down and be a focused and hard working student for the next 2.5 weeks of my semester and then I'm going to fully appreciate crossing the stage and feeling like I truly earned my diploma.
I also want to feel like we've had good closure as a group. I'm going to miss reading about you guys's lives and having friends to share my spiritual journey with. Part of getting good closure I think, is to definitely meet and have lunch. Just so we can say our goodbye's as a small group.
Anyway, I'm going to go do some of that buckling down and work on some of my papers. I have 6 pages down on my 30+ page field experience journal on top of a presentation and 4 other smaller papers due in the next two weeks. I've been procrastinating working on all this, but I know I'll go crazy if I don't break it up and work on it a little at a time. So, wish me luck! I can't wait to see you guys!
Heather
Change, Change, and More Change!
Hey everyone!
Okay so I have SO many new updates, please bear with me! First of all, my well-bring practices are going really well which are spending time with kids, praying, and working out 3x's a week - this got way easier once it started getting nice out!
1) Death in the Fam
This past week was hard but good. Josh's step-grandfather (who was like a grandpa to him) died last Friday so this past week everything was thrown off because we attended the viewing Monday night and the funeral Tuesday morning, both in Winchester, so I had to miss some classes/assignments. My teachers were cool with it but it threw off my groove and now I am way behind :( I have 12 chapters, 2 articles, and 2 papers to write before tomorrow (please pray for a miracle!)
2) Josh's New Project
We just found out Josh got put on a project in Florida for work so he will be in FL Mon-Thurs every week and only be home on weekends and he leaves tomorrow :( It will be hard but I'm trying to focus on the positive sides of it like we will appreciate our time together more, we will be committed to praying for each other, our grocery bill will go down, etc. I'm only nervous about sleeping alone, I never have, even growing up my sisters and I would always sleep together so that will probably be the hardest. Please keep me in your thoughts/prayers for that!
3) I GOT A JOB!
I'm praising the Lord right now because I received a job offer before I even began the job search. I will be working as a Business Systems Specialist for the company I used to work for, my old boss offered me the job. It's not my dream job but it will be good money and my boss says he can work with me if I want to try and make some creative decisions in that position. It is such a huge blessing, I can't take any credit for it, obviously I didn't even apply, thank you Jesus!!
4) And since I got a job...WE ARE GETTING GRACIE!!!!!!
We are planning to move into to a bigger apartment at the end of June so we should be able to get Gracie early July, I am so excited and it's all I can think about!!! I wish we had her right now!!!
Heather - my friend just heard back from GMU about grad school via letter in the mail yesterday so you should be finding out really soon, you can even try calling! I really hope you get in! Hang in there! We are almost done. Be kind to yourself about not being a homework nazi but maybe try giving yourself small rewards when you finish assignments, like dessert or something, so you have incentive to finish! I'm so proud of you working on your relationships (especially with your Mom) that's tough stuff, but I believe you will be blessed by the work you put in.
Ariel- Congrats on your job! I'm hoping you can find a social work job too! I will also pray that your 20 page paper comes more easily than you expect and that you can enjoy writing it. Crazy as it sounds, I do believe that it's possible!
David - Sorry you got sunburned :( It sounds like you're making some serious headway in your yard though, that's not easy work. Make sure to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated :)
So can we all safely plan to grab lunch at Chipotle in Fairfax Corner this coming Saturday, the 27th? Can we say around noon? I would love to catch up with y'all in person!
Okay so I have SO many new updates, please bear with me! First of all, my well-bring practices are going really well which are spending time with kids, praying, and working out 3x's a week - this got way easier once it started getting nice out!
1) Death in the Fam
This past week was hard but good. Josh's step-grandfather (who was like a grandpa to him) died last Friday so this past week everything was thrown off because we attended the viewing Monday night and the funeral Tuesday morning, both in Winchester, so I had to miss some classes/assignments. My teachers were cool with it but it threw off my groove and now I am way behind :( I have 12 chapters, 2 articles, and 2 papers to write before tomorrow (please pray for a miracle!)
2) Josh's New Project
We just found out Josh got put on a project in Florida for work so he will be in FL Mon-Thurs every week and only be home on weekends and he leaves tomorrow :( It will be hard but I'm trying to focus on the positive sides of it like we will appreciate our time together more, we will be committed to praying for each other, our grocery bill will go down, etc. I'm only nervous about sleeping alone, I never have, even growing up my sisters and I would always sleep together so that will probably be the hardest. Please keep me in your thoughts/prayers for that!
3) I GOT A JOB!
I'm praising the Lord right now because I received a job offer before I even began the job search. I will be working as a Business Systems Specialist for the company I used to work for, my old boss offered me the job. It's not my dream job but it will be good money and my boss says he can work with me if I want to try and make some creative decisions in that position. It is such a huge blessing, I can't take any credit for it, obviously I didn't even apply, thank you Jesus!!
4) And since I got a job...WE ARE GETTING GRACIE!!!!!!
We are planning to move into to a bigger apartment at the end of June so we should be able to get Gracie early July, I am so excited and it's all I can think about!!! I wish we had her right now!!!
Heather - my friend just heard back from GMU about grad school via letter in the mail yesterday so you should be finding out really soon, you can even try calling! I really hope you get in! Hang in there! We are almost done. Be kind to yourself about not being a homework nazi but maybe try giving yourself small rewards when you finish assignments, like dessert or something, so you have incentive to finish! I'm so proud of you working on your relationships (especially with your Mom) that's tough stuff, but I believe you will be blessed by the work you put in.
Ariel- Congrats on your job! I'm hoping you can find a social work job too! I will also pray that your 20 page paper comes more easily than you expect and that you can enjoy writing it. Crazy as it sounds, I do believe that it's possible!
David - Sorry you got sunburned :( It sounds like you're making some serious headway in your yard though, that's not easy work. Make sure to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated :)
So can we all safely plan to grab lunch at Chipotle in Fairfax Corner this coming Saturday, the 27th? Can we say around noon? I would love to catch up with y'all in person!
Thursday, April 18, 2013
In Search of Motivation (and time)
Hey Guys!
Things are getting pretty crazy. I only have a few classes, but all the assignments seem to be due around the same time and I have SO little time to actually work on them. I'm trying to be gentle and kind to myself and not kick myself for taking an evening off from homework, but it's so hard to keep up. Right now I'm torn between just taking the rest of the evening off or having some free time this weekend. I thought it would be a no brainer, just get it done now, but I'm really having a hard time digging down and finding the motivation to make myself do anything else right now. I feel lucky to even have done my cultivating the spirit work. I've had the craziest week at work, Tuesday I worked 11.5 hours not including my hour break, so all told I was there from 8-8:30. It was insane. Then last night I went straight from work to class and was there until 10 PM. This is the first time I've had a second to just sit down and do some homework. I wanted to start out with my "easy" homework and do a post with you guys and respond to the questions for this module. Anything to put off working on one of the many papers and projects I have coming up. One of my classes hasn't even given the assignment for the final paper and I'm already feeling overwhelmed. Part of me just feels like laughing at myself because I've had MUCH harder semesters, but I've never had to work full time while being in school full time. Sometimes it just feels like it's just more than I could possibly hope to get done. Yet somehow here I am and I'm almost graduating. I just am so afraid I'm going to slip up and fail a class or something and not graduate. I'm also going CRAZY because when I interviewed for grad school on the 18th of March they said I should hear back in 3-4 weeks. Monday was 4 weeks and still no news. Keep your fingers crossed for me! Everything else is still pretty much the same. As my last post. Trying to come up with somewhere beautiful to have an outdoor wedding, but I'm really floundering a bit, but that's just something fun and exciting I work on in my "spare time". If anyone knows somewhere cheap and pretty, let me know! I hope to hear from you all soon about our lunch date!
Heather
Things are getting pretty crazy. I only have a few classes, but all the assignments seem to be due around the same time and I have SO little time to actually work on them. I'm trying to be gentle and kind to myself and not kick myself for taking an evening off from homework, but it's so hard to keep up. Right now I'm torn between just taking the rest of the evening off or having some free time this weekend. I thought it would be a no brainer, just get it done now, but I'm really having a hard time digging down and finding the motivation to make myself do anything else right now. I feel lucky to even have done my cultivating the spirit work. I've had the craziest week at work, Tuesday I worked 11.5 hours not including my hour break, so all told I was there from 8-8:30. It was insane. Then last night I went straight from work to class and was there until 10 PM. This is the first time I've had a second to just sit down and do some homework. I wanted to start out with my "easy" homework and do a post with you guys and respond to the questions for this module. Anything to put off working on one of the many papers and projects I have coming up. One of my classes hasn't even given the assignment for the final paper and I'm already feeling overwhelmed. Part of me just feels like laughing at myself because I've had MUCH harder semesters, but I've never had to work full time while being in school full time. Sometimes it just feels like it's just more than I could possibly hope to get done. Yet somehow here I am and I'm almost graduating. I just am so afraid I'm going to slip up and fail a class or something and not graduate. I'm also going CRAZY because when I interviewed for grad school on the 18th of March they said I should hear back in 3-4 weeks. Monday was 4 weeks and still no news. Keep your fingers crossed for me! Everything else is still pretty much the same. As my last post. Trying to come up with somewhere beautiful to have an outdoor wedding, but I'm really floundering a bit, but that's just something fun and exciting I work on in my "spare time". If anyone knows somewhere cheap and pretty, let me know! I hope to hear from you all soon about our lunch date!
Heather
Monday, April 15, 2013
Hello Everyone,
I'm glad to see you're all doing well, I guess spring put everyone in a better mood. I just finished the hardest and busiest week of the semester so far, and I think it's safe to say I'm glad it's over. I have a 4 day weekend every week but this week I had no time off. I was busy all day Thursday-Sunday. I went home on Saturday and I did a LOT of yard work. I only took a lunch break, I was out all day and I even got burnt :( BUT our backyard looks much better now. I cleaned out both of our fish ponds and the stream in between them, which took me a full day on Saturday. I dug up most of the backyard on Sunday but we still have a lot to go. Today's weather isn't the best but honestly, I don't mind a little cooler weather after this crazy week.
I can't believe we have a month till graduation! I'm so excited, I can't even tell you guys.
Hope all is well with you 3! Miss you guys!
David
I'm glad to see you're all doing well, I guess spring put everyone in a better mood. I just finished the hardest and busiest week of the semester so far, and I think it's safe to say I'm glad it's over. I have a 4 day weekend every week but this week I had no time off. I was busy all day Thursday-Sunday. I went home on Saturday and I did a LOT of yard work. I only took a lunch break, I was out all day and I even got burnt :( BUT our backyard looks much better now. I cleaned out both of our fish ponds and the stream in between them, which took me a full day on Saturday. I dug up most of the backyard on Sunday but we still have a lot to go. Today's weather isn't the best but honestly, I don't mind a little cooler weather after this crazy week.
I can't believe we have a month till graduation! I'm so excited, I can't even tell you guys.
Hope all is well with you 3! Miss you guys!
David
Sunday, April 14, 2013
In the final stretch!
Hey guys! I hope you're all doing well!
Lindsey - Gracie is super adorable! Have you guys been wanting to adopt a dog? I think it's super great to adopt an adult because they're less likely to find homes!
I'm doing well. I just got back a little while ago from Harrisonburg. Josh and I drove down Saturday to spend a bit of time with my mom. It was really nice and she's doing well! We had a great time! Anyway, not it's back to reality, starting back class and work tomorrow. boo. But I can't believe we're about to graduate. You're definitely right Lindsey, I'm feeling less stressed out and, even though I actually have more assignments than before, I'm just feeling excited and like I'm almost done. I just wish that the grad school program I applied to would hurry up and get back to me already! I'm going crazy waiting.
I've been doing pretty well in my practices! Josh and I are doing really well and counseling is going well. I'm spending time with my mom and working on repairing our relationship. I feel like I'm making big strides in all of my relationships. Josh and I are even working on setting a wedding date possibly in the next year or so!
I'm doing much better being more aware of my eating. I've been shopping pretty much exclusively at Trader Joe's for groceries and trying to get easy healthy meal options. I'm also TRYING to eat out less, but it's really hard with my crazy schedule. But when I do eat out I'm trying to choose healthier options.
As far as limiting my TV/Computer time, I'm doing ok. I've definitely been watching less TV, although I don't have much time for TV even if I wanted to watch it more. However, as far as the computer, I've pretty much given up on that. I'm trying to graduate, I'm in school, work and for all of those I need my computer (for some things more than others) and now I'm starting to plan my wedding and I definitely need my computer for that. I'm not just wasting time on the internet really, I'm just doing a lot of things!
Anyway, things are good and I feel great! LOVING this beautiful weather! I hope you guys are also!
Lindsey - Gracie is super adorable! Have you guys been wanting to adopt a dog? I think it's super great to adopt an adult because they're less likely to find homes!
I'm doing well. I just got back a little while ago from Harrisonburg. Josh and I drove down Saturday to spend a bit of time with my mom. It was really nice and she's doing well! We had a great time! Anyway, not it's back to reality, starting back class and work tomorrow. boo. But I can't believe we're about to graduate. You're definitely right Lindsey, I'm feeling less stressed out and, even though I actually have more assignments than before, I'm just feeling excited and like I'm almost done. I just wish that the grad school program I applied to would hurry up and get back to me already! I'm going crazy waiting.
I've been doing pretty well in my practices! Josh and I are doing really well and counseling is going well. I'm spending time with my mom and working on repairing our relationship. I feel like I'm making big strides in all of my relationships. Josh and I are even working on setting a wedding date possibly in the next year or so!
I'm doing much better being more aware of my eating. I've been shopping pretty much exclusively at Trader Joe's for groceries and trying to get easy healthy meal options. I'm also TRYING to eat out less, but it's really hard with my crazy schedule. But when I do eat out I'm trying to choose healthier options.
As far as limiting my TV/Computer time, I'm doing ok. I've definitely been watching less TV, although I don't have much time for TV even if I wanted to watch it more. However, as far as the computer, I've pretty much given up on that. I'm trying to graduate, I'm in school, work and for all of those I need my computer (for some things more than others) and now I'm starting to plan my wedding and I definitely need my computer for that. I'm not just wasting time on the internet really, I'm just doing a lot of things!
Anyway, things are good and I feel great! LOVING this beautiful weather! I hope you guys are also!
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Feeling Great!
Hey guys!
So the world is just a better place when it's warmer, right?! I think everything has changed and my stress levels have gone WAY down. My work load has lightened up a bit too (thank the Lord)! I am doing well at my well-being practices: praying, spending time with my 3 year old friend, Reese, and working out 3 times a week! Josh and I are also volunteering at FOHA walking dogs and I fell in love with a St. Bernard named Gracie. We are trying to figure out if she would be a good fit for us! Pictures of her are below :) What do you guys think?
So the world is just a better place when it's warmer, right?! I think everything has changed and my stress levels have gone WAY down. My work load has lightened up a bit too (thank the Lord)! I am doing well at my well-being practices: praying, spending time with my 3 year old friend, Reese, and working out 3 times a week! Josh and I are also volunteering at FOHA walking dogs and I fell in love with a St. Bernard named Gracie. We are trying to figure out if she would be a good fit for us! Pictures of her are below :) What do you guys think?
Miss you guys! Can't wait til graduation!
Lindsey
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Just A Quick Note!
Hey guys! I forgot to mention yesterday, I know I shared with you all a little about my mom during our meeting after spring break. Just wanted to let you guys know we've talked a few times and she's doing well. She's even planning on coming to my graduation, which makes me pretty nervous, especially since I still haven't seen her. Anyway, but I'm doing well with all of it. Thanks for your support!
Saturday, April 6, 2013
The Cherry Blossom Festival!
Hey guys!
Sorry I haven't written yet this module. I'm glad to hear you're having a nice weekend Ariel! And I LOVE the pictures Lindsey! Super cute. I'm glad you're adjusting well David and not letting your exercise routine go!
So today Josh and I spontaneously decided that it was a beautiful day to go into the city and see what cherry blossoms there are and spend the day wandering. We ended up at the Newseum, which is one of my favorite places in DC besides the Smithsonians. Anyway, I have a paper due Monday which I have to start soon, but it was nice to take a day just to ourselves and enjoy each other's company.
Oh my gosh! I cannot believe that we're graduating in like a month!!! I'm so excited and it's finally starting to feel real. I just bought my cap and gown and my family members have booked their flights. Graduation can't come soon enough! Especially since I'm SO overwhelmed with school.
I'm feeling a little disappointed in myself because I've let one of my classes slip to the wayside and I just found out that I failed the midterm by like 1 point. Thankfully there are plenty of other assignments and I should be able to pull my grade up to a decent grade, but it's the first thing I've failed since my sophomore year and I'd made a commitment to myself to focus on school and make it a priority and it feels like a failure. :/ Hopefully everything is ok and this doesn't mess up my chances of getting into grad school or worse, graduating, but I'm trying to stay positive and not put too much stress and pressure on myself over something that's over and done. Anyway, I'm going to go make some dinner and enjoy the rest of my weekend! I hope you all do the same!
Sorry I haven't written yet this module. I'm glad to hear you're having a nice weekend Ariel! And I LOVE the pictures Lindsey! Super cute. I'm glad you're adjusting well David and not letting your exercise routine go!
So today Josh and I spontaneously decided that it was a beautiful day to go into the city and see what cherry blossoms there are and spend the day wandering. We ended up at the Newseum, which is one of my favorite places in DC besides the Smithsonians. Anyway, I have a paper due Monday which I have to start soon, but it was nice to take a day just to ourselves and enjoy each other's company.
Oh my gosh! I cannot believe that we're graduating in like a month!!! I'm so excited and it's finally starting to feel real. I just bought my cap and gown and my family members have booked their flights. Graduation can't come soon enough! Especially since I'm SO overwhelmed with school.
I'm feeling a little disappointed in myself because I've let one of my classes slip to the wayside and I just found out that I failed the midterm by like 1 point. Thankfully there are plenty of other assignments and I should be able to pull my grade up to a decent grade, but it's the first thing I've failed since my sophomore year and I'd made a commitment to myself to focus on school and make it a priority and it feels like a failure. :/ Hopefully everything is ok and this doesn't mess up my chances of getting into grad school or worse, graduating, but I'm trying to stay positive and not put too much stress and pressure on myself over something that's over and done. Anyway, I'm going to go make some dinner and enjoy the rest of my weekend! I hope you all do the same!
Friday, April 5, 2013
Beautiful Day
Hey groupies,
I appreciate all the smartphone love, it truly is such a gift and since I waited so long, I do not take it for granted one bit! Today is a beautiful day and I got to hang out with my friend, Reese (pics below), who will turn 3 in a couple of weeks. She is so special to me and helps me fulfill my well-bring practice of spending time with kids. It is so life-giving to me and today with the sunshine was double-awesome! We ate lunch outside and went on a bike ride :)
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I have been doing well with exercising too (3 times this week) bc it's starting to get warmer out and this is helping my stress level for sure. Also my praying is getting better but I still need to be intentional about doing it every day.
So miraculously, both of my classes were cancelled on Wednesday (which I needed to work on my 10-page paper due Thurs..thank you Jesus!) but I did not need to wake up early. So I did the experimentation with one really solid night of rest on Tuesday night and it was so great! I felt like a different person when I woke up and although I usually get a good amount of sleep, not having an alarm wake me up made my whole day!
I know we are all so busy, but I'd love to make lunch/dinner work. Can you guys grab lunch at the Chipotle at Fairfax corner on April 20th?
I appreciate all the smartphone love, it truly is such a gift and since I waited so long, I do not take it for granted one bit! Today is a beautiful day and I got to hang out with my friend, Reese (pics below), who will turn 3 in a couple of weeks. She is so special to me and helps me fulfill my well-bring practice of spending time with kids. It is so life-giving to me and today with the sunshine was double-awesome! We ate lunch outside and went on a bike ride :)
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So miraculously, both of my classes were cancelled on Wednesday (which I needed to work on my 10-page paper due Thurs..thank you Jesus!) but I did not need to wake up early. So I did the experimentation with one really solid night of rest on Tuesday night and it was so great! I felt like a different person when I woke up and although I usually get a good amount of sleep, not having an alarm wake me up made my whole day!
I know we are all so busy, but I'd love to make lunch/dinner work. Can you guys grab lunch at the Chipotle at Fairfax corner on April 20th?
Monday, April 1, 2013
6 Weeks!
Heeelllllloooooo Ladies!
It was great seeing all of you in class, I'm glad you could all make it! It's been a while since I've seen you girls. Lindsey, welcome to the smartphone world! How do you like it so far? It's great isn't it? haha :) I've enjoyed every minute of it ever since I got mine two weeks ago. Heather, those pictures are great but at the same time they're scary. I'm sure I would not have been able to walk around those areas without being concerned but I'm glad you survived :) Ariel, I'm glad to hear you've been able to start making progress towards your goal. Go you!
Ever since I retired, life has been different but I try to keep it somewhat similar to what it used to be. I still work out 6 days a week, which my body requires. I swim 3 times a week, I go to the gym 3 times a week and I run 3 times a week as well. I try to spread it out evenly and not do everything all at once.
It sounds like the hardest part of the semester is just ahead of all of us. BUT! I know we can do it! We only have 6 weeks till graduation, so keep that in mind! Don't let senioritis take over, I know it could be hard. I would gladly meet up with you girls if we can find a time that works for all of us.
That is all for now, hope you guys are doing great!!
David
It was great seeing all of you in class, I'm glad you could all make it! It's been a while since I've seen you girls. Lindsey, welcome to the smartphone world! How do you like it so far? It's great isn't it? haha :) I've enjoyed every minute of it ever since I got mine two weeks ago. Heather, those pictures are great but at the same time they're scary. I'm sure I would not have been able to walk around those areas without being concerned but I'm glad you survived :) Ariel, I'm glad to hear you've been able to start making progress towards your goal. Go you!
Ever since I retired, life has been different but I try to keep it somewhat similar to what it used to be. I still work out 6 days a week, which my body requires. I swim 3 times a week, I go to the gym 3 times a week and I run 3 times a week as well. I try to spread it out evenly and not do everything all at once.
It sounds like the hardest part of the semester is just ahead of all of us. BUT! I know we can do it! We only have 6 weeks till graduation, so keep that in mind! Don't let senioritis take over, I know it could be hard. I would gladly meet up with you girls if we can find a time that works for all of us.
That is all for now, hope you guys are doing great!!
David
Friday, March 29, 2013
The Hardest Part
Hey guys,
So my semester has been busy - no doubt - but this coming week and next will be the hardest yet. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers or send me good vibes if that's your jam. I'm still doing well with my practice of spending time with children but I have been struggling with exercising and praying. Usually, Josh and I pray before bed together but when I stay up late doing a paper after Josh has already gone to bed, then I so easily forget to pray. I notice a tangible difference!! My energy levels are so much lower from lack of exercise and my spiritual well-being is also noticeably affected from lack of praying and/or intentional time with the Lord. I can tell because of how easily overwhelmed I become if I am not consistently praying so I will definitely try and get back into a rhythm of praying.
Luckily, I have not had to sacrifice much sleep because I cannot function without AT LEAST 8 hours so I am so grateful that I am still finding time to sleep and sleeping pretty well throughout the night. I am trying to count my blessings!
The good news is that it is a beautiful, sunshiney day today and even though I have 1,000 things to do before Monday, I am going to go for a run :)
It was great to see you guys Saturday!! AND more good news! I got my first smartphone too David!! With unlimited text/talk so let's start group texting again and set up a time to do lunch or dinner. Peace!
So my semester has been busy - no doubt - but this coming week and next will be the hardest yet. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers or send me good vibes if that's your jam. I'm still doing well with my practice of spending time with children but I have been struggling with exercising and praying. Usually, Josh and I pray before bed together but when I stay up late doing a paper after Josh has already gone to bed, then I so easily forget to pray. I notice a tangible difference!! My energy levels are so much lower from lack of exercise and my spiritual well-being is also noticeably affected from lack of praying and/or intentional time with the Lord. I can tell because of how easily overwhelmed I become if I am not consistently praying so I will definitely try and get back into a rhythm of praying.
Luckily, I have not had to sacrifice much sleep because I cannot function without AT LEAST 8 hours so I am so grateful that I am still finding time to sleep and sleeping pretty well throughout the night. I am trying to count my blessings!
The good news is that it is a beautiful, sunshiney day today and even though I have 1,000 things to do before Monday, I am going to go for a run :)
It was great to see you guys Saturday!! AND more good news! I got my first smartphone too David!! With unlimited text/talk so let's start group texting again and set up a time to do lunch or dinner. Peace!
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Back to the Daily Grind (and PHOTOS!)
Hey guys! So I finally and back to the normal swing of things. I'm feeling ok about how my interview for grad school went yesterday. I'm super nervous about getting into the program though. I don't really have much of a backup plan but to just keep working and reapply next year if I don't get in, but I'm really not anxious to do that. I'm really excited to see you guys Saturday, although I'm a little disappointed because I was also supposed to have my "reorientation" at the same time from my Philly trip where we all get together and look at pictures and talk about our trip. But it's no big deal! I'm much more excited to see you guys. Anyway, I'm gonna go try to get some sleep! I just wanted to post some pics for you guys! See you soon!
Time IS Flying!
Hello my wonderful ladies!
I'm kind of sad as I got to read your posts! It sounds like you girls are having a very hard time! BUT!!! Graduation is right around the corner (less than two months WOO) so keep your heads up and stay positive at all times! I didn't do anything during break, I just stayed home and tried to relax as much as I could before heading back to school. Lindsey - It was great seeing you the other day, even though it was only for a few minutes! I saw that you had stuff to do so I didn't want to distract you too much. I'm excited to see everyone this Saturday, it has been a while since I saw you guys. Being retired feels weird. I'm not sure I like it, although it's nice not having to wake up at 6 to go swim in cold water. I'll have to get used to this for sure but I'm definitely going to swim on my own a few times each week. On a different note, my brother got me an early graduation present, he bought me an iPhone 5! I cannot tell you how excited I am as this is my first smart phone and so far I'm loving it!! I can't believe it's the second half of March already. Time is flying so fast! We will graduate before we know it. I'm very excited to graduate, but like Ariel said, I'm kind of nervous to see what's coming after graduation. In the mean time, I try to do at least 4 meditations each week to keep myself calm and relaxed.
That's all I have for now, I can't wait to see you guys in a few days!
Hope all is well with you guys!
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Home, Safe and Sound!
Hey Guys! So I'm home in one piece and halfway moved into my new apartment. I got in yesterday around 7:30-8 and we are about halfway done unpacking. I have my grad school interview tomorrow morning at 8:30 which is supposed to take 3 hours (phew!), and my midterm for Childhood Studies which I haven't had a second to study for and I'm not even sure what's being covered on it (Ariel have you studied at all for it?). Life just gets so crazy things start falling to the wayside. Ugh! Anyway, it's my first day back to the grind tomorrow and I'm still up at 1:15, Yikes! I'm going to go get some sleep and post a blog in a day or two when I get a second and things have calmed down. BTW, my mindfulness practices helped immensely during my trip to Philly and we even did a couple group meditations!!! I'll read back over you guys's most current posts when I get a chance!
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Need Another Spring Break :(
Hey y'all,
So this week has actually been pretty hard. I had 10 museums to go to for all of my classes and trying to fit them all into two days in downtown DC was a nightmare. I did not get to enjoy myself and I probably walked about 10 miles today so I have blisters on my feet and I went running yesterday so my legs are killing me, eek!! Also, I have four papers to write before Monday and that's not including babysitting, and volunteer hours for school I have to fit in this weekend. I am in a really stressed place and I'm trying to stop, drop, and breathe but to be honest, sometimes it just doesn't seem like enough!
I'm doing really well with my practices: I've been staying active at least 3 times a week, I've been praying every night with Josh, and also spending time with kids each week. I know for a fact that these practices are totally responsible for keeping me sane so I definitely want to keep them up for the rest of the semester and can't imagine this season without them! My motto for this semester is "One step at a time" and I'm trying to stick to it but I just get so overwhelmed at times. Seeing all the papers I have to write before May is terrifying. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see you guys next Saturday!
So this week has actually been pretty hard. I had 10 museums to go to for all of my classes and trying to fit them all into two days in downtown DC was a nightmare. I did not get to enjoy myself and I probably walked about 10 miles today so I have blisters on my feet and I went running yesterday so my legs are killing me, eek!! Also, I have four papers to write before Monday and that's not including babysitting, and volunteer hours for school I have to fit in this weekend. I am in a really stressed place and I'm trying to stop, drop, and breathe but to be honest, sometimes it just doesn't seem like enough!
I'm doing really well with my practices: I've been staying active at least 3 times a week, I've been praying every night with Josh, and also spending time with kids each week. I know for a fact that these practices are totally responsible for keeping me sane so I definitely want to keep them up for the rest of the semester and can't imagine this season without them! My motto for this semester is "One step at a time" and I'm trying to stick to it but I just get so overwhelmed at times. Seeing all the papers I have to write before May is terrifying. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see you guys next Saturday!
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Breakaway
Hey guys,
Hope your spring breaks are going well so far! I had an amazing weekend at the Young Life camp, Rockbridge in Rockbridge County, VA. Josh and I helped lead a middle school retreat down there called Breakaway with our church and it was a blast! It was awesome weather too! It was such a great way to start out my spring break and although it totally wore me out physically (especially with the time change, uggh!) it was uplifting spiritually and I was so touched by hanging out with my middle schools girls, they are at such a fun age to be with, it's awesome! I am so grateful that spring break is finally here, although I'll just be knocking out my required museum visits and doing homework to catch up, it's still much needed me time!
Heather, I am praying for you, sister. I am praying for peace and courage and a sense of security that you can walk around that city with confidence and know you are protected.
David, congratulations on your retirement! Such a bittersweet time like you said, but also a wonderful accomplishment :) We'll have to throw a little party after class next Saturday to celebrate!
Ariel, being sick throws everything off. We understand what it's like and I would encourage you not to judge yourself and be kind to yourself! You can do it girl, it's literally just like 2 months away! Keep your eye on the prize and keep working hard, you'll get there - we'll all get there!!
Love and miss you guys!
Lindsey
Hope your spring breaks are going well so far! I had an amazing weekend at the Young Life camp, Rockbridge in Rockbridge County, VA. Josh and I helped lead a middle school retreat down there called Breakaway with our church and it was a blast! It was awesome weather too! It was such a great way to start out my spring break and although it totally wore me out physically (especially with the time change, uggh!) it was uplifting spiritually and I was so touched by hanging out with my middle schools girls, they are at such a fun age to be with, it's awesome! I am so grateful that spring break is finally here, although I'll just be knocking out my required museum visits and doing homework to catch up, it's still much needed me time!
Heather, I am praying for you, sister. I am praying for peace and courage and a sense of security that you can walk around that city with confidence and know you are protected.
David, congratulations on your retirement! Such a bittersweet time like you said, but also a wonderful accomplishment :) We'll have to throw a little party after class next Saturday to celebrate!
Ariel, being sick throws everything off. We understand what it's like and I would encourage you not to judge yourself and be kind to yourself! You can do it girl, it's literally just like 2 months away! Keep your eye on the prize and keep working hard, you'll get there - we'll all get there!!
Love and miss you guys!
Lindsey
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